As a therapeutic game master, it’s easy to feel the pressure of needing to be at your best for every moment of every session.
When things don’t go as planned, it’s important to remember that self-forgiveness is a crucial part of the journey.
By “unplanned”, I don’t mean the usual improvisation or riffing that game masters have to deal in as their stock and trade – I mean unplanned as when you feel you had a decent response, a decent plan, but you feel like you didn’t pull it off.
That’s what happened to me today in a positive gaming session.
So what’s the most important thing for me to do going forward?
I need to embrace the fact that, like all human endeavors, game mastering has its ups and downs. Our role is demanding and multifaceted, requiring creativity, empathy, and adaptability. It’s natural to have off days.
I need to start by acknowledging my efforts and intentions. Remind myself that my primary goal is to support and engage my players, fostering a safe and therapeutic environment.
Even on my less-than-perfect days, I know that my dedication and care make a significant impact.
So, if I reflect on what went awry without harsh self-criticism. If I identify areas for growth and view them as opportunities for improvement rather than failures, then I am going to go forward with confidence and I am going to become a better, stronger therapeutic game master.
Self-forgiveness also involves self-care. So if this happens to you, don’t feel that you’ve let yourself down. Instead, take time to recharge and address your own needs. A well-rested and mentally healthy game master is more effective and resilient.
Surround yourself with a supportive community, whether it’s fellow game masters or friends who understand your passion. Sharing experiences and seeking advice can provide new perspectives and encouragement.
Remember, being a therapeutic game master is a continuous learning process. Allow yourself the grace to make mistakes and grow from them.
By forgiving yourself, you cultivate a healthier mindset that benefits both you and your players.
By my next session, I will have a better fleshed out village with more interactions available to my players. I’ve already devised a card system that I can rely on that will only make future therapeutic sessions more effective.
